As godly men and women, we should find godliness incredibly attractive.
They each look exactly the same as before, and yet they don’t.
Mutual faith in Jesus Christ should be the most arrestingly attractive thing about any potential spouse.
This may be the most important thing to learn about physical (or sexual) attraction: that at its richest and fullest, it is not only or even mainly physical (eyes, hair, and figure).
That doesn’t mean that if you’re a Christian, you should find every Christian man or woman attractive.
But it should mean there’s a theme or trend in your attractions.