Dating a guy with large penis

Incorporating more foreplay and more sexual acts can be a good way to explore what works while you're still getting to know each other and each other's bodies.

If you want to have better sex with this guy (and really any partner), you need to be open and honest about what feels good. Instead, be honest if you'd like certain positions, more oral or manual stimulation, sex toys, whatever, says Berman.

That means no more fake orgasms and a lot more talking about what you want from sex. Even if it ends up being an issue of sexual incompatibility, don't blame it on his size.

This is already a really sensitive issue for most men thanks to cultural standards and unrealistic body expectations — something pretty much everyone can relate to in some way or another.

Or this guy might just be slightly smaller than average, which could be the case if you've just been with really well-endowed partners in the past.

Welcome to the new Buzz Feed Sex Q&A where you can ask us your awkward, confusing, gross, embarrassing, or thought-provoking questions, and we'll provide answers from leading sexual health experts. A few nights ago, things started getting a little hot and heavy, and we ended up in his bedroom. I had been anticipating this moment for so long, until I saw what I was working with: an extremely small penis. Sincerely, Frustrated Girlfriend Hi, Frustrated Girlfriend! D., author of Loving Sex, and sex researcher Debby Herbenick, Ph. Here's what they had to say: Let's get this out of the way first: Penis size isn't everything when it comes to sex. That's because not everyone relies on penetration for sexual satisfaction, and actually, most women don't orgasm from penetration alone anyway, says Berman.

This guy is perfect; he's everything I have been looking for in a relationship. Things were moving pretty fast; actually so fast that we skipped most of the foreplay and he was on top of me before I knew it. How do I handle his small member without ruining our sex life? To help answer it, we spoke with sex expert Laura Berman, Ph.

For reference, the average erect penis is about 5 inches, according to recent research, and most penises fall within an inch or two of that, says Herbenick.

If that's the case, certain positions and techniques might make penetrative sex feel a lot better for both of you.