You don’t want to wake up one day and realize that you are living in a condo, driving a car and using a credit card that are all in his name, and he’s only coming by for sex.
The realization that you have essentially become a prostitute won’t sit well with you.
He can use this knowledge to be a better man for you and he can use it for his own selfish reasons. When your bullshit-ometer goes off, listen to it and call him on it.
Some men like to date younger women because they can be easier to manipulate, but most men will respect a woman who is confident enough to stand up for herself and not put up with his BS.
Even if it’s only for a short time, the experience you will gain will be priceless.
Once you know what it’s like to be in a mature relationship, you may decide to never date men your age again.
Pay attention to the way he’s treating you and the language he uses.
This will tell you a great deal about his intentions. Just because a man is older and has more experience doesn’t mean he knows everything.
They understand that you have a life of your own to live, just as he does. Therefore, there are going to be times when you want to go out with your friends and he wants to be at home.
Some men live a George Clooney type of life, and plan to die a bachelor. You wouldn’t want some other (younger) woman trying to take your place in your children’s lives. He may be ready to settle down and start a family, while you are just getting started as an adult and have no interest in settling down.
If a long line of hot women couldn’t get ‘ol Georgie boy to settle down, it’s highly unlikely you’ll be able to get a Clooney-wanna-be to turn into the marrying type either. If that’s what you are looking for, then go for it and have a blast. Or, he may be at the stage in his life where he has already been married, has kids and has no interest in ever getting married again.
At the very least, you will be better prepared to choose more wisely when it comes to selecting Mr. Before heading off to the nearest golf course, upscale bar or online dating site, read these tips on how find the right silver fox for you: Instead of making sure you’re a good fit for him, make sure he’s a good fit for you.
You may feel you have to fit into his world since he’s older, wiser and set in his ways.