Most men can enjoy your company yet never want to be in a serious relationship with you.
Why won’t he just officially make you his girlfriend and stop sending you mixed signals?
You can continue to give and give and give yet still find yourself many months later with no relationship and possibly with him moving while making some other women his girlfriend.
If he hasn’t made you his girlfriend after a good amount of time what makes you think that continuing to give him benefits is going to make him change his mind any month now.
Dear Pastor, I was in a relationship with a guy for three years or more. People who knew we were in a relationship told me that he was having an affair with a next girl. He still loves me, and the worst thing he could say is that he doesn't see himself and the girl he was cheating on me with going anywhere. He calls and texts me anytime he feels like, and is telling me that I have to break up with his cousin in front of him because no man will get me but him. Any man who tells a woman that no man can get her but him is a dangerous man and cannot be trusted. You say that you do not love him, so do not allow him to come close to you at all. The young man with whom you have become involved was not aware that your ex-boyfriend was his cousin.
I confronted him, and he denied it until she (his other girlfriend) texted me. We broke up November of last year, but this man won't let me have peace in my life. We exchanged numbers, and we communicated every day. I am confused, and I am not in love with any of them, but my spirit takes the cousin more than my ex-boyfriend. But, if you do not love him, let him go his way also.