’ It must be that great photo new photo you uploaded, and if the date-faucet has run dry, you might just start responding again…Nothing is more frustrating than matching with an attractive girl on Tinder, excitedly sending her a message, and then facing eternal radio silence. But what with recent studies suggesting that the rise in STDs in the UK lies with dating apps, perhaps glamour is now a commodity in fairly short supply. Thanks to Tinder, POF, Happn and the rest, we are now living in a world where selecting our next partner is as easy as ordering a lamb balti.The math is simple: The number of replies divided by the number of times sent for each message gives you your response rate, which you can track on a running basis in a spreadsheet.If you’re testing 11 different opening lines on Tinder, it might look something like this: If this were your response data, all you’d need to do is stick with messages 2, 3, 4 and 7… On average, breaking the ice with a GIF makes her 30% more likely to respond and doubles the length of your conversation, according to Tinder.Tinder Opener #3: A Three-Message Sequence Message 1: Message 2: Does this mean we’re boyfriend and girlfriend now? Test each opening line to see what works best for you.It’s as simple as keeping track of how many times you send each message and how many times each message gets a response.
Along the way, you’ll discover the exact reasons you’re not having the success you want with your Tinder messages.
(No judgment either way) Travel makes an especially strong conversational opener because most women enjoy dreaming about exotic destinations.
Kick-start a nice vacation fantasy, and she’s already looking forward to more messages from you.
And if you read carefully, you’ll be able to double your response rate and even create epic Tinder conversation starters of your own.
If you want to start a conversation, your Tinder icebreaker needs to intrigue her.