The first is that it can be done from the comfort of one's home, alone, and doesn't involve the traditional pressures of meeting people IRL, such as going to a crowded bar. “Conversations with new people are taxing for the introvert," Hartman told ."Those initial conversations you can do over email online.” That intimacy continues to be an advantage during the dating stage.
“He shared the online profile his future wife had written, and you could see she was so charming and soulful in an introverted way," Cain said.Dating profiles tend to be really generic because people don't want to scare potential partners by "sounding too different or too odd, not realizing that it actually backfires," Hartman said.When writing your profile, you should do the opposite.Still, introverts, especially men, who Hartman and Cain agreed face different expectations than women, may find it difficult to ask out someone they've been messaging."That’s a lot to ask for someone who’s introverted, especially in an area already outside of his comfort zone," Hartman said.