“Everybody thought this was a little phase, that I was just having a crisis.” But friends and family came around to accepting the couple after they’d been dating for a year and it became clear that Sutherland had serious intentions.In April 2010, they had an intimate beachside wedding in Hawaii, and they now have a 6-year-old son, Marek.A lot of guys over the age of 40 have problems seeing themselves as being real contenders for the affections of hot women in their 20s.The problem, first of all, is that these guys see themselves as “old.” Stop that. When you want to start dating younger women, don’t think of yourself as old.(Especially when you’re Jennifer Lopez.) Nobody ever questions when a younger woman dates an older man, so it’s about time someone spoke out about it!
The job market for younger guys sucks right now, and that’s a huge advantage for you.
“When you’re an ambitious woman, it’s very difficult — you either have to subsume what you wanna do for somebody else, or live with the struggle to fight your partner on top of business survival, and it’s a very unhealthy relationship,” says Nicole Wipp, a 45-year-old attorney and entrepreneur, who found a perfect match in her husband, Marcus Sutherland, a 33-year-old paramedic.
“Dating somebody younger than myself, there’s an acceptance of ambitious women — it’s more normalized.” They met at the University of Hawaii in November 2002, when she was a law student and he was a sophomore undergraduate.
No matter what job you have, It’s probably several steps up from all the guys currently hitting on these girls. You’ve probably had a lot more life experiences, you have more stories to tell, you can make it clear that you have a job and a life and you’re not just starting out. If you’re worried you’re going to come off sounding old and desperate, forget that.
This guide will help you present yourself online so girls will be falling all over themselves to meet you.